Shameless Women!
I don’t really know how to start this without sounding jealous or threatened,i will have to say it anyway. I went to a party on Friday night in our estate,sitting beside our table were these group of women one of them was so loud and dancing in a very unladylike way twisting as if she was a pole dancer,it would have been bearable had she been pretty,young and not too fat with flabby pot belly with a behind that were begging for mercy to be released out of it’s misery of being squashed into tight pair of orange jeans.At a stage it was so obvious that she was after my husband and what did i do? well! nothing, i just allowed her to fool herself,i went to the dance floor leaving my husband behind and she was all over him i watched from where i was wondering how bold and aggressively desperate can an old woman be after another woman’s husband.This is not the first time that i have to encounter these kind of behavior from women who are meant to be responsible citizens of this country.On Sunday again on our way back from a fashion show we stopped at this eatery place in our Estate to grab something to eat we decided to sit outdoors you know to breath in natural cool air. Two guys and a lady were seated opposite us,sadly the shameless lady was married to one of the unfortunate guys.The way the seats were positioned she was in direct view of my husband while i was backing her,i noticed that my husband was trying as much as possible to avoid looking in that direction that was what made me to turn lo and behold she was flashing him okay for those of that don’t understand what flashing means she wore this short skirt and her legs were apart that i could see her black pant that is if she was wearing any but i saw black anyway. She kept opening and closing her legs, i then asked my husband why the woman was behaving that way in front of her husband.Next time i checked she crossed her legs in a way that all her thighs were visible then she put her legs down again and kept opening and closing it,i was watching her while checking my husband at a time i asked him if i should go tell the woman to open her legs more for him he became defensive by saying that i was the one that called his attention to the woman and if i that was the truth, did i say he should not remove his eyes from those fat thighs again? We got our check paid but he was reluctant to just leave he asked for an extra bottle of small stout that was when it dawned on me that he was getting a kick out of the whole show. I allowed him without saying a word about it again until we left.We got home and i watched TV till about 1.00am while allowing him enough time to fantasize because i know that he is not definitely getting anything from me. Here women go after men shamelessly,while the men are no saints either they go after anything in skirt or gown,some of them stoop so low to making out with their nannies and domestic helps. I think i should get out of the house right now for my business sake.If you were in my situation concerning those shameless women what would you have done?
Posted By tyna 
Jun 3, 2009 
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Eric Hundin
hmmm what an interesting piece! The truth is that such a thing are not strange any more. Men have to be extra vigilance to enable them cope with such women. You can’t blame your husband even if he take more glances…
Lucky you, you have a good man. MAny men will have follow their lust in that circumstance.
Truly, such action by women is shamelful…but most of them are driven by poverty and greed…a word is for the wise.
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This site is wonderful, it is a great improvement on ur previous work, i do compliment u, u are doing a great job.
As for my comment as per the above topic, U handled the whole thing in a matured way but remember that in all, God is the ultimate, he is the one that Builds and keeps a home. Keep on keeping on, his grace is more than sufficient for u.
Do have a nice day.
Ur sake.
Excellent observations and you have a great way of expressing things. Thanks for this.
well…if i were a woman, i shall be more sexually attractive to my hubby…to satisfy his fantasies!
very interesting piece. well done.
and if your hubby was intently looking at those “flashing” thighs, could that be some symptom of lack of magic in domestic sexual life? is he not getting enough kick at home?
is he looking for something new, in the same body he’s known and been with for years?
rather than ignore these seemingly unrelated incidents, can you explore the mind of this dear father and husband and see if there’s a missing link in your marriage and sex?
we’ve heard so much of shameless women…now we’re encouraging respectable women to take charge, especially of what belongs to them.
cheers! my love to your beautiful children…
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Wow Beibee,he is getting more than enough oh!
your straighforwardness is awe-inspiring.
that’s a good start having enough…in some new exciting ways?
reflect and see if there’s been something sparkling new in the marriage and sex in the last six-twelve months…
it may not be about sex itself. it may be about the daring sexy cloth that creates the effect of something new to craze for.
can his visual sensibility be more excited at home? these and other things are areas to explore; don’t resign! communication can help…or was he just being (hu)man at those time giving in to the instinctive mode of physical man?
enough sex. more excitement. huh?
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I totally understand your point of view and in regards to that be rest assured that i got that covered, remember that am a very creative person.He was just being a man no harm intended.
Well, it all depends on how women handle things, beibee. You see, many women in that state will have taken the frustration on their husbands. And that is what often lead to problem in relationships.
To understand your partner and know when and how to express displeasure is sure way of keeping the ralationship healthy.
The last time, I hear this ind of story, it ended in divorce! I commends you and your husband in handling of the situation…
thanks for your input najim. i appreciate your point of view.
i trust you sister. more passion and fulfillment to your marriage.
how is chinedu, kachi and the twins doing?
extend my love to them.
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sometimes in life you find people distract you,have a strong believe in what that is your’s.and keep building on your marrage foundation.which started with love and understanding.