http://www.blogbytyna.com making your dreams come thru Fri, 30 Jul 2010 08:37:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://www.blogbytyna.com/family/being-a-step-mother/#comment-1513 Ahmad Mukoshy Thu, 15 Jul 2010 15:45:21 +0000 http://www.blogbytyna.com/?p=246#comment-1513 Oh! Tyna you really had seen so much in life, I love reading your articles that elaborates so much to me. Oh! Tyna you really had seen so much in life, I love reading your articles that elaborates so much to me.

]]> http://www.blogbytyna.com/inspiration/be-happy%e2%80%a6/#comment-1512 Sharyce Arciaga Thu, 08 Jul 2010 04:58:08 +0000 http://www.blogbytyna.com/?p=11#comment-1512 Very nice site. I have bookmarked your site and will return often! Very nice site. I have bookmarked your site and will return often!

]]> http://www.blogbytyna.com/other/how-to-avoid-affiliate-marketing-scams/#comment-1511 sports articles football Wed, 07 Jul 2010 19:50:40 +0000 http://www.blogbytyna.com/?p=99#comment-1511 Thank you for the tips. Thank you for the tips.

]]> http://www.blogbytyna.com/family/being-a-step-mother/#comment-1506 aminah Thu, 24 Jun 2010 22:30:50 +0000 http://www.blogbytyna.com/?p=246#comment-1506 I had read this weeks ago but it is now that i feel I wish to comment. you see I look at it from a different angle.I see the child that had to find out after 11 years that you are not his biological mum.I actually wonder how it was possible to keep such truth for so long from him anyway.I believe he must have sensed something all the time. I know in africa children might not ask the same questions like children in my culture such as : ,, mummy tell me,how was it when I lived inside your belly ....mummy please tell me the story again of how it was when I was born ....ect.pp.my children can never get enough of me telling them how I used to sing for them ,tell them about the colours and smells outside my womb and how much I waited for them to come out of me for me to hold them in my arms and kiss them and how deeply I wished at the other hand to keep them withon the savety of my belly forever ,so that no harm can touch them...how I cried happy tears when i first looked at them after the struggle of giving birth... I ask myself what would i tell a child that I didn,t give birth to???? I personally believe I would have told my possible stepchild that it came from another womens belly but that this woman is now living with God and that I found myself loving this child and wanted to be his mother .I believe your stepson should have had the opportunity to know about his real mum,who she was,how she looked and spoke and smelled...he should have been allowed to have a sacred spot within his soul for this woman,who didn,t chose to die and leave her child behind.the trust of this child got damaged cause it weren,t his parents that told him the truth but an outsider.I feel it might be good to leave aside your personal hurts about him not revealing to you who told him the truth but to consider how this boy feels ever since he found out. I am sure you and your husband based your decision of not telling him the truth on good intentions and I take into consideration that there are diffrences in culture .still I feel the way I feel cause I have once been in a similar situation ...the situation of your stepson.that,s why I cannot help looking at it with a different eye. I had read this weeks ago but it is now that i feel I wish to comment.
you see I look at it from a different angle.I see the child that had to find out after 11 years that you are not his biological mum.I actually wonder how it was possible to keep such truth for so long from him anyway.I believe he must have sensed something all the time.
I know in africa children might not ask the same questions like children in my culture such as : ,, mummy tell me,how was it when I lived inside your belly ….mummy please tell me the story again of how it was when I was born ….ect.pp.my children can never get enough of me telling them how I used to sing for them ,tell them about the colours and smells outside my womb and how much I waited for them to come out of me for me to hold them in my arms and kiss them and how deeply I wished at the other hand to keep them withon the savety of my belly forever ,so that no harm can touch them…how I cried happy tears when i first looked at them after the struggle of giving birth…
I ask myself what would i tell a child that I didn,t give birth to????
I personally believe I would have told my possible stepchild that it came from another womens belly but that this woman is now living with God and that I found myself loving this child and wanted to be his mother .I believe your stepson should have had the opportunity to know about his real mum,who she was,how she looked and spoke and smelled…he should have been allowed to have a sacred spot within his soul for this woman,who didn,t chose to die and leave her child behind.the trust of this child got damaged cause it weren,t his parents that told him the truth but an outsider.I feel it might be good to leave aside your personal hurts about him not revealing to you who told him the truth but to consider how this boy feels ever since he found out.
I am sure you and your husband based your decision of not telling him the truth on good intentions and I take into consideration that there are diffrences in culture .still I feel the way I feel cause I have once been in a similar situation …the situation of your stepson.that,s why I cannot help looking at it with a different eye.

]]> http://www.blogbytyna.com/inspiration/self-improvement/the-7-characteristics-of-rich-people/#comment-1505 Aiping Wang Mon, 21 Jun 2010 12:15:02 +0000 http://www.blogbytyna.com/?p=102#comment-1505 When you have a dream you must protect it and don't let anyone steal it, because people will try, even if its not intentional. Lets look back at the story of Joseph for a moment again. Joseph dreamed once that he was the sun. You know the sun that powers this earth. When you have a dream you must protect it and don’t let anyone steal it, because people will try, even if its not intentional. Lets look back at the story of Joseph for a moment again. Joseph dreamed once that he was the sun. You know the sun that powers this earth.

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