Personal Change: 4 Conditions that Transform U
Sometimes terminology gets tossed around and we all nod our heads like we understand what’s being said, when we don’t. I thought I would take a few steps back and take a simplistic look at what personal change is, to ensure we’re all nodding our heads in understanding.
When I speak about personal change, I’m describing something personally trans-formative. The personal transformation can be large or small but somehow you change a bit of who you are. Personal transformation can be driven by external and internal events. These events can be prompted by something you control and others “happen to you”. I use the word event because often times, there is some very real event that occurs and a series of internal changes follow. Let’s examine these situations, look at examples and why that creates personal transformation.
External Events - An external event is something that happens in your environment. Examples of external events can be things such as moving, the death of someone, getting hired or fired, starting or finishing school, or children moving out of the house. On the surface these external events look just that: external to us. Yet, despite their external nature the internal impact is always there. The internal impact is not always in portion to the event itself. This is because we all process the impact in different ways. I’ll discuss our internal reactions later.
The reason why an external event, even something as simple as moving has an impact on us internally is because it forces us into making changes to accommodate that event. If you look at moving, you not only have your personal living arrangements completely impacted for a period of time, but you have new neighbors and are leaving old ones, new businesses to learn about and a new place to hang your toothbrush. You are changing habits and that creates anxiety or discomfort. You may also be creating a new social network and the dynamics of a new group of people will redefine who you are as well. Good or bad, you will change who you are even if it is only slightly. Other events mentioned could change you substantially such as a death of someone close or a job change. (more…)





Posted By tyna
Mar 25, 2010











