What A Stressful Life!

Hope
This photo was taken at a private beach in Nigeria.

I have been trying as much as possible to cope with life here in Nigeria. The heat is too much or am i talking about the well trained mosquitoes feasting on us everyday.It is as if am in another planet because am so out of touch with happenings around the world. You are wondering if there are no Televisions or Internet? When i have electricity my internet provider will have a problem then the Internet is fully working now but no electricity,we have light from 12am to 12 noon everyday. The use of generators is the order of the day here,oh! about generators that’s another long story,after placing the order for a 27KVA the generator set which i consider very big for our personal use,it took the company (Milkano) more than 2 months to deliver it,today is 3 weeks since delivery yet it has not been commissioned.I have to go out everyday because of the nature of my business,i sit in the car for hours on traffic jams that moves at snail pace,the only good thing is that am not the one driving,the first and last time i tried driving from my house to Shoprite mall i almost died with annoyance.My husband doesn’t see the need for me to have a driver,i haven’t driven a car for over 3 years and i have never driven a car in this mad city called Lagos before. Talking about getting a driver,well! that’s gist for another time,i have to post this quick while there is still light. For everything i am still very grateful to God who made it possible for to see these stress.

  Posted By tyna     Nov 28, 2008       6 comments  

I am not giving you anything

Anybody who loves reading and especially authors know how important a catching title is.

You can think up the most appropriate and most descriptive title, only to discover - yet again - that there is nothing new under the sun and someone has beaten you to it, or you can have a title that you think is perfect, but nobody else does.

And let’s face it, when we buy or select books to read, we in fact select titles and authors before we select the contents. The titles first catch our eyes, and then we explore further.

There is actually an annual prize that is awarded by the Bookseller Magazine for the oddest book title of the year. The first winner of the prize in 1978 was the title “Proceedings of the Second International Workshop on Nude Mice” (University of Tokyo Press)

Here are some winners from other years:

“Natural Bust Enlargement with Total Power: How to Increase the Other 90% of Your Mind to Increase the Size of Your Breasts”

“How to Avoid Huge Ships”

“Development in Dairy Cow Breeding and Management: and New Opportunities to Widen the Uses of Straw”

“Weeds in a Changing World”

“Butterworths Corporate Manslaughter Service”

“Living With Crazy Buttocks”

“People Who Don’t Know They’re Dead: How They Attach Themselves to Unsuspecting Bystanders and What to Do About It”

“The Stray Shopping Carts of Eastern North America: A Guide to Field Identification”

Now the top prize has been allocated to the 1996 winner, “Greek Rural Postmen and Their Cancellation Numbers”

A cancellation number is a postal marking applied to a stamp or stationery indicating that the item has been used. We can see the cancellation details on the mail we receive, because a print on the stamp indicates where and when the item was mailed, and we cannot use the same stamp for other mail.

It appears that Greek rural postmen each had a cancellation number that they applied to incoming mail to cancel the stamps before distributing the mail. The prize winner book tells the human stories behind each of the cancellation numbers.

Cancellation number 87236 was the number used by rural postman, Dimitri Vassilikos, to cancel the stamps on all mail routed through the Elassona post office in Northern Thessalonika.

He died at the age of 87. After his death, seventeen 17 bags of undistributed letters were discovered in his attic. It transpired that Dimitri sat at his kitchen table all day, drinking ouzo (a traditional Greek alcoholic drink) and cancelling the stamps on the letters.

But then he never actually delivered even one of the letters in his life. He simply added the mail items to other bags of mail that he had been storing in his attic. As a result the inhabitants of Elassona are known to this day as “the isolated ones”. Not even Readers’ Digest could get past Dimitri Vassilikos, it seems.

Why would a postman do something so outrageous? Because he feared that his worthless sons would discover the hidden mail in the attic, steam off the stamps and use the proceeds to go to the Greek island of Mykonos. These young men seemed to be quite attracted to Mykonos and would do anything to get there. I wonder how many used stamps with the number 87236 they would have had to sell to get the money to go to Mykonos.

We think the old man was crazy, but don’t we do the same in different ways? Think of the crockery and cutlery and bed linen that are hidden away and only taken out to impress visitors. As if we are not good enough to use beautiful or valuable stuff every day. (more…)

  Posted By tyna     Nov 26, 2008       3 comments  

Does the Prosperous Mindset Still Work?

I have seen and heard a few presentations lately on “Prosperity Mindset” and I wanted to talk about something that is worth considering.

Most of these people who are talking today are bringing in a lot of money and on the surface that would give them credibility. But some of them I know personally and it had little or nothing to do with mindset. Their success was either when they got in, who they knew or what they are doing. I’m not saying they didn’t work hard, but to say it was all a result of their wonderful mindset is not the whole truth.

Life has a flow to it, cycles, ups and downs and most people lose their “mindset” very quickly when things don’t go well for them. But if someone truly has a prosperous mindset, it seems it would serve them best when things are down, not when everything is rosy.

Those who haven’t seen enough of life to know better would say, “Well, if they have a prosperous mindset, they shouldn’t be down”. But consider that just because things are down doesn’t mean you don’t have things you are thankful for and that your life is not prosperous.

I thought about this a lot when I read Orison S. Marden’s biography. He is the man who wrote the book “Prosperity: How to Attract It”. Mr. Marden had been a very successful man in the hotel business when a fire hit his building and burned everything included his manuscript for this book. He was living in Kansas or Missouri, I forget which, and decided to go back to the Northeastern United States and regroup.

When he wrote “Prosperity: How to Attract It”, Mr. Marden was living in a rented apartment above and butcher shop walking down to the local dinner for his meals. He had lost everything BUT his prosperous mindset. When reading the book, you would think he was the most prosperous man in the country—and he was. Even though this book was written in the early 1900’s it’s as true today as it was 100 years ago. (more…)

  Posted By tyna     Nov 15, 2008       1 comment  

Paypal Email scam

The scammers are at it again,please if you get this type email just ignore it they are only trying to get hold of your paypal password.

How can I protect myself from PayPal fraud or scams?

PayPal is dedicated to fighting fraud and scams. You can help protect your account against PayPal scams by being cautious in giving out your own personal information such as first name, last name, business name, email address, password, financial information (credit card, bank account number, PIN), social security number, and driver’s license number.

Tips to stay safe from PayPal fraud or scams:
Log in safely: To log in to your PayPal account or access the PayPal website, open a new web browser (e.g., Internet Explorer or Netscape) and type in the following: https://www.paypal.com/

Check the email greeting: Emails from PayPal will always address you by your first and last name or the business name associated with your PayPal account. A PayPal scam email may include the salutation “Dear PayPal User” or “Dear PayPal Member”

Look out for attachments: PayPal emails will never ask you to download an attachment or a software program. An attachment found in a PayPal scam email will often contain a virus that can harm your computer or compromise your PayPal account

Never give out personal information: If we require information from you, we will notify you in an email and request that you enter the information only after you have safely and securely logged in to your PayPal account.

Often, PayPal scams will request details such as your full name, account password, credit card number, bank account, PIN number, Social Security Number, or mother’s maiden name.

To learn more about protecting your PayPal account and spotting PayPal fraud or scams, please review paypal Security Tips.

Sample of Paypal email scam. (more…)

  Posted By tyna     Nov 7, 2008       6 comments  

Live with Gratitude

Creating an attitude of gratitude is one of the easiest steps we can take to improve our lives. The happiness that we create for ourselves by showing our appreciation has far-reaching effects, both for ourselves and for those we come into contact with. The potential for gratitude to spread beyond those people also increases significantly - it can be highly contagious. There are so many different ways that we can express an attitude of gratitude. Here are just a few:

Say “thank you”. This is the most basic and well-known way to show appreciation to others. Saying “thank you” is a great way to express your gratitude and can be done in several different forms. You can say it in person, over the phone, in a note, or in an email. Using this when it’s least expected can have significant results in lifting someone’s spirits. For example, a quick note to your child’s teacher thanking her for her hard work and patience might give her the boost of energy that she needs right when she needs it most. You may never know what effect this has had on her, but it will have an effect.

Stop complaining about your life. Even as tough as life can be sometimes, remember that there is always someone that has things worse than you do. Constant complaining about what is wrong in your life will keep you focused on that. The opposite is true as well - focusing on what is right in your life will keep you focused on that. Focusing on the negative will bring you down while focusing on the positive will lift you up.

Focus on what you have, not what you don’t have. This is very closely related to not complaining about your life. Being grateful for what you do have keeps you in a positive place, whereas focusing on what you don’t have keeps you in a negative place. Focusing on what you do have, regardless of how little or how much that may be, is a great expression of gratitude. (more…)

  Posted By tyna     Nov 6, 2008       2 comments  



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